My Dad: A Caregivers Journey Part 2 - Time Demanding

Caring for an elderly parent can be a challenging and demanding task. It requires a lot of time, energy, and resources, but at the same time, it can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life. As a caregiver, you are not only providing physical care but also emotional support and companionship to your loved one...in my case...my dad. In this blog post, I will address the challenges and rewards of caring for an elderly father.

The Challenges of Caring for an Elderly Father

Caring for an elderly father can be physically and emotionally draining. It requires a lot of time and energy to provide the necessary care and support. You may have to help with daily tasks such as appointments, dressing, grocery shopping and preparing meals at times which can be physically demanding. You may also have to take care of medical needs, such as administering medications, managing appointments, and coordinating with healthcare providers.

In addition, caring for an elderly father can be emotionally challenging. You may have to deal with your father's mood swings, depression, constant needs or anxiety. You may also have to manage your own emotions, such as guilt, frustration, or sadness. You may feel overwhelmed and stressed, which can affect your own physical and mental health.

The Rewards of Caring for an Elderly Father

Despite the challenges, caring for an elderly father can also be a rewarding experience. It can bring you closer and create lasting memories. You may learn more about your father's life, experiences, and values, which can deepen your relationship. You may also feel a sense of purpose and fulfillment, knowing that you are making a difference in your father's life.

Caring for an elderly father can also provide opportunities for personal growth and learning. You may develop new skills, such as communication, problem-solving, and time management. I am learning to show more compassion to those walking this same path. After my mom passed (and this will sound weird) I learned to sympathize more with those whose funerals I do due to a loss of a parent. You may also gain insights into aging, healthcare, and social issues, which can broaden your perspective.

Why I Would Do It Again in a Heartbeat

As a caregiver for my father, it has been demanding and time-consuming, but I would do it again in a heartbeat. Here are some reasons why:

1. Love: I love my father, and I want to do everything I can to help him live a comfortable and fulfilling life. My dad showed his love to us, his family by being there. Words didn't and still don't come easy for him to express love but he was always there for my mother, brother and I.

2. Gratitude: My father has done so much for me throughout my life, and caring for him is a way to show my gratitude.

3. Responsibility: I feel a sense of responsibility to take care of my father, as he took care of me when I was younger.

4. Connection: Caring for my father has brought us closer together and created a deeper connection between us.

5. Learning: I have learned so much about aging, healthcare, and social issues through this experience, which has expanded my knowledge and perspective.

In conclusion, caring for an elderly father can be a challenging and rewarding experience. It requires a lot of time, energy, and resources, but it can also bring you closer and provide opportunities for personal growth and learning. If you are a caregiver for an elderly father, know that you are not alone, and there are resources and support available to help you.

Sidenote: The picture is one of the last times he was able to go physically go fishing. This picture was taken at lake Iola. He would come out often when my family was at the camper. He has decided to hang it up this year.