Blessing Others: A Missed Opportunity and a Lesson Learned

As a pastor and a father, I often find myself reflecting on the ways we are called to bless others—both within our families and beyond. Recently, my son James had his go-kart stolen. It was more than just a machine to him; it was a project he poured his heart into, something he hoped to take out to our camper, a source of pride and joy. When I had to tell him it was stolen, James was understandably shaken and deeply upset. 

We shared the news on Facebook, and to my surprise, it was shared over a thousand times. Even the police came by to take a report and help get the word out. The community responded with concern, thoughts, and prayers. But deep down, I was hoping for something more—a tangible outpouring of blessing.

Honestly, I hoped someone would be moved to start a GoFundMe to help James get a new go-kart, or even fulfill his dream of owning one of those gas-powered mini jeeps. I’ve seen how the body of Christ can rally together in times of need. I’ve experienced it myself and have sought to be that blessing for others. When I heard of a teen wanting a video game system, I gave him one. When a college student had no way to get to school, I gave him my motorcycle. These weren’t grand gestures in my eyes, just simple acts of love and obedience.

That’s why, as a father, I felt a bit deflated that no one stepped up in this way for James. It was an opportunity for our community to bless a young man in a practical, meaningful way. It’s not about the money or even the go-kart—it’s about showing the love of Christ in action.

Scripture is clear about our call to bless others. In Galatians 6:10, Paul writes, "Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.”  

And in James 2:15-16, we are reminded: “Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,’ but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it?”

We are blessed to be a blessing. Sometimes, that means offering prayers and words of encouragement. But other times, it means stepping out and meeting a tangible need. I’ve learned from this experience that while our intentions may be good, we must also be willing to act when the opportunity arises.

My hope is that as followers of Jesus, we will be more mindful to shine His light in practical ways—beyond thoughts and prayers. Let’s look for those moments, big or small, where we can step up and be the hands and feet of Christ. Let’s not miss the opportunity to bless others, especially when it’s right in front of us.

James may not have his go-kart back, but he has a father who loves him, and a God who sees him. And perhaps, through sharing this story, we can all be reminded to look for ways to bless others—because you never know how much it might mean.

"Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16

Let’s be the blessing someone is praying for today.