Social Media Comparing? I Don't Think So

 

Michael Jr., a well-known comedian, recently shared a meme that has been making the rounds on social media. The meme states, “If you spend all your time on social media, flipping through Instagram and Facebook, what you’re really doing is looking at somebody else’s grass - noticing how green it is. And in doing so, you’re not watering your own grass.” This statement, while thought-provoking, may not resonate with everyone. As a regular social media user, I find myself disagreeing with the sentiment behind this meme. 

While the metaphor of tending to your own grass instead of admiring others' might be applicable to some people, it isn't a one-size-fits-all scenario. Social media, as the name suggests, is a platform for social interaction. For many, it serves as a bridge to connect with family and friends, especially those who live far away. It's a way to share moments, experiences, and thoughts, to keep up with the happenings in each other's lives. 

For others, social media is more than just a window into other people's lives. It's a source of information, a platform for learning, and a space for discussion. People share interesting articles, thought-provoking blogs, and informative videos. Scrolling through social media feeds often feels like flipping through a magazine full of varied content. You might stumble upon a blog post about a subject you're passionate about, or discover a new interest from a shared article. 

In my case, I enjoy the process of scrolling through social media. It's akin to people-watching in a park or a café, but with the added benefit of learning something new or getting a fresh perspective on things. It's also a way to unwind and relax, much like watching television. 

This brings me to another point - the comparison between social media and television. Many people spend hours glued to their TV screens, engrossed in the latest episodes of their favorite shows. How is that different from someone scrolling through social media feeds, catching up with friends' updates, or reading shared articles? 

The meme shared by Michael Jr. seems to suggest that spending time on social media is less productive or valuable than other activities. But isn't the value of an activity subjective, depending on the individual's interests, needs, and preferences? For some, social media might be a distraction or a source of envy. But for others, it could be a source of information, connection, and entertainment. 

So, whether you prefer to watch the latest episode of NCIS or scroll through pictures of Aunt Ruth's dog's new haircut, remember that everyone has their own way of 'watering their grass'. And as long as you're enjoying what you're doing and it's adding value to your life, there's no harm in it.